Thai lady bar

Thai lady bar

When i came to Bangkok at the first time i never have been to any bar because i no have any detail about this area, but after time pass and pass, i learn to  visited some where that i never know before and also never think it'll have the place like this in Thailand.

It sound like i was so innocence, Yes! ^_^ i was like that before but the woman like me who like to learn a new thing and like to spend my life as an other one, never stop to curious then i tried to visited in these place for get to know some information about them life and want only watched it. I just know that there were many bar in Bangkok and there were many Thai lady bar who love to do this job.

Honestly I saw many Thai lady bar were very beautiful all of them. When i saw some lady who still very young and very cute i thought "why she must do this occupation?"
"Do they very happy for this job?" if she have more chance. "Is she will change her position?"

And one day i met with a lady that i knew about her before, she was younger than me for 3 years and she had educated in same school when i was height school, in that time i knew that she was very nice lady, who had smooth behavior and smart girl.

She look very happy to met me, in that time she had work in supper market, we gave exchange phone number and became a friend again for a year but not soon she disappear and could not contact for a year then one day she have called me.

I was happy to know that she still find and doing well, then she said she wanted to meet me and we had appointment to have some dinner together and that night she had told me in some thing that i never think she will can do, she said she become a lady bar, she asked me if i can accept to be friend with her as before.

I said i don't mind but "Are you really sure to do this job?" i asked her, she said yes and she told me that she just started to do this job for 4 month ago.

A lady like me who have many curious that made me asked her many questions that i want to know. She told me almost every thing. She said this business it very sick, all Thai lady bar they only need money, some of them have drug, some of them just make a group for gossip and jealous to an other rich lady bar, when they have more money, some of them will spend a lot of money to shopping to show that they are hi-so.

After she had work on this carrier for year, and now she had more money and she already found the man who wanted to take care of her and take her out from lady bar.
We met each other again, but in this time it quite different, i said i happy with you too that you have the right man who want to take care of you and really need you.

Now she have her home, she have more money but, as you know that foreigner have lady bar because they very easy, no commitment, they are take care of you very well but if you not give money for her, she also can leave you every easy too.

And almost men who like to take lady bar, some of them were retired and come here just some business time then leave them and just send only money for them lady, then they will visit a lady again, maybe 2 or 3 times per year.

This is the weak point of lady bar, why almost lady bar they have return to do this job again after they already have good husband and have more money enough. The reason are , when them husband or boyfriend return back to work in them country, these ladies will no have job and have not thing to do, some of them just hang out and ask only money more and more from them husband or boyfriend.

And not soon these ladies bar they will find the new boyfriend, but they will keep you in her hand because you are a bank for her.

Life must going on

Some Thai lady bar waiting for guest

And so sad, After my friend she got more money from this man and after that man return to his country, she also to the same thing as i have told you above, She become a drinker lady, like to hang out every night, even i did't stay with her but she always called me to tell about some bad thing of her. I gave her some advise but she never improve herself be better and finally i said... "i'm sorry i can't be your friend any more because of your doing is very bad more then me to accept it, and please stop to call me, i no have any suggest for you."

^_^ that time it the finally way for me to know about her life, until now i still don't know how is she and where she is. she maybe return to do in that way again. it not my business any more but i must say thank you to her for this detail that make me have more information to write in here.

The reason why some Thai lady want to do this job
- Because of they need money.
- Because of they have no choice (some lady bar they are very poor).
- Because of they have no chance.
- Because of they want to take care of them family, parent, children.
- Because of them husband don't take care.
- And because of some of them like to do in this occupation, even they will have more chance but they still choose to be in this way.

And my friend have told me that, in this occupation is very bad and very poor, some of lady bar must met with rude guest and she have to do in some thing that she never do before to serviced her guest, some details is every bad more then i'll tell you in here, and while i have listening her stories, i also never think, human will can do like that too.

Then i must tell you that, not all of Thai lady bar will be bad, do you know some of them are very nice and honestly, they are very poor and good manner, They just have no chance and have no much choice. I wishes them have a happy life and meet with good thing in them life, and i must say thank you to all of you who sacrifice them self to do this job, if Thailand without them, rape case will make problem in many where. if without them  no one will entertain all of us when we are sad or unhappy. If without them Thailand economy will not increase in tourist section, If without them who will make money to take care of them family and children.

She is a man but look very cut, i  like her

YES! some thing it not be as your see
If without them i may no have know about this part of Thailand and telling you in this story in here.

If you come here and want to go for entertain with lady bar, just do with them like they are a human like you too, do with them like they are also breathing as you and give them some chance.

Thank you friend. I wish you good luck in your way.